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For almost twenty years, Taylor Swift has written songs about her previous relationships.

She has sung about discovering love, having her heart crushed, beginning over, and every step of the journey since the publication of her debut album in 2007 and continuing until her most recent Eras Tour. 

Taylor's relationship with Kansas City Chiefs tight end Travis Kelce, 34 has been widely publicized

After divorcing British actor Joe Alwyn earlier this year, the 34-year-old has also experienced romances with a number of well-known men. Travis Kelce, the tight end for the Kansas City Chiefs, is at the top of her list.

Long-standing theories among fans claim that albums by former stars like Harry Styles (1989), Jake Gyllenhaal (Red), and John Mayer (Speak Now) were directly influenced by them.

Taylor and actor Jake Gyllenhaal, 42, dated briefly in 2010. In the extended version of the album's song All Too Well, Taylor hits out at men who date younger women with the lyric: 'I'll get older while your lovers stay my age'. Fans have speculated it is about her relationship with Gyllenhaal

Taylor’s lengthy discography, according to psychologists and behavior specialists consulted by DailyMail.com, may indicate an anxious attachment style as well as “toxic and self-destructive” behavior.

All of the professionals here have examined the romantic-themed lyrics in the popstar’s songs, even though none of them have worked directly with her.

 Taylor and Joe Jonas dated for just three months, but she wrote songs about how she thought they would be together forever. Psychologists said that is a sign of anxious attachment

With an increasing number of millennial and Gen Z users seeking psychological therapy, the subject of attachment styles has gained a lot of interest on social media in recent years. 

The nearly century-old “attachment theory” was developed by psychologists John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth and looks at how early interactions, especially romantic ones, affect relationships later in life. 

Four’styles’ of attachment are believed to exist: avoidant, anxious, disordered, and secure.

Earlier this year, Taylor and longtime partner Joe Alwyn broke up after six years together. They had generally kept their relationship private

You are more likely to acquire a secure attachment type, for instance, if your parents were dependable and attentive.

This indicates that you don’t push people away out of dread of being hurt or live in constant terror of your lover leaving you.

On the other hand, the likelihood of having an insecure attachment style—such as nervous or avoidant—is higher in cases when parents were distant.

Relationship coach Dr. Melissa A. Fabello of California told DailyMail.com that all insecure attachment types have a common beginning: childhood trauma. Among other things, our psychological structure is influenced by the way that caregivers react to, or tune into, their charges. 

In other words, we learn to react to the environment by figuring out what makes us feel safest. Your relationships will suffer if you have an insecure attachment style.

Your orientation to relationships, particularly romantic ones, is shaped by this.  

Taylor dated musician John Mayer (46) when she was 19 and he was 32. Psychologists said that the song Dear John points to unhealthy obsessions during her relationships with him

Online, Taylor Swift followers have been debating her attachment style for a number of years. 

According to a Reddit post with hundreds of thousands of comments, the 34-year-old has an anxious attachment style. 

Individuals who have this kind of attachment frequently experience relationship insecurity. 

Fans speculate that Taylor's 1989 was written about musician Harry Styles, whom she dated from late 2012 until early 2013

They suffer from poor self-esteem and are tormented by feelings of mistrust and abandonment, even if they still feel connected to and supported by their spouses. 

Hyperactivation, the characteristic symptom, is the incessant search for indications that one’s partner is about to depart. Additionally, a person with an anxious attachment style may constantly seek reassurance, believe that minor issues could endanger the relationship as a whole, watch for indications that their partner is drifting apart, or believe that their partner doesn’t value them. 

Taylor Swift Kisses Travis Kelce in New Photo – Billboard

Anxious attachment styles have been linked to mental health issues and a sense of being out of control in day-to-day living, per a 2015 study published in the journal Frontiers in Psychology. 

The original poster stated, “I’ve always loved Taylor Swift, and it’s wild to me how many of her songs are literally taken from my thoughts/attachment theory.” 

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Delicate is essentially about that initial sense of vulnerability in a relationship. The exact words “my smoking gun” are a fraud! It sounds like an anxious-avoidant relationship to say “tolerate it 100%.”

The song “Tolerate It” from her ninth studio album, Evermore, including lines like “I notice everything you do or don’t do,” which are highlighted in the post.

“It would seem that a lot of pop culture romanticism is highly centered on anxious and avoidant dynamics,” user azafrann said.

According to user smittydoodle, “I wouldn’t be surprised, considering how much older guys like John Mayer and Jake Gyllenhaal screwed with her head in her early 20s.” 

The singer was famously linked to pop artist John Mayer for a few months in 2009, and then she dated actor Jake Gyllenhall in 2010.